Whether you're just dipping your toes into the world of piercing stretching or you're a seasoned pro with 30mm earlobes, this guide is designed to be your ultimate handbook, covering every intricate detail of the stretching journey. From initial piercing to healing, and all the way to advanced stretching techniques. Consider this your comprehensive source for all things related to piercing stretching.
Understanding the concept of gauge in piercing and its relation to stretching
The term "gauge" describes the diameter or thickness of the jewelry piece you're intending to use. The gauge system is counterintuitive: the higher the gauge number, the thinner the piece of jewelry. For those interested in stretching their piercings, understanding gauge numbers is essential, as you'll be moving down in gauge numbers to increase the diameter of your piercing over time.
Initial piercing
A well-executed initial piercing serves as the cornerstone for any successful stretching journey. Precise placement and appropriate gauge during the initial piercing can set the stage for a smooth and effective stretching process later on. When getting a piercing that you intend to stretch, consult with an experienced professional piercer to discuss your long-term goals.
Healing and patience
Before starting to stretch, it's vital to ensure that your piercing is fully healed. The healing process varies depending on several factors, such as the type of piercing and individual physiology. Generally, healing can take from several months to even a year. And before stretching it's best to wait double the time! Patience is important here, as attempting to stretch an unhealed piercing can result in complications, including infection and tearing.
The stretching process
The actual stretching process requires careful planning and execution. Several techniques exist to aid in this process, with tapers and the taping method being the most commonly employed. It's crucial to proceed gradually, increasing the size one gauge at a time. Rushing this process can cause issues like skin tearing, blowouts, and may necessitate a long-term halt to your stretching journey.
Following each successful stretching session, a waiting period is essential for the tissue to heal and adapt to the new size. The recommended waiting time is a minimum of 4-8 weeks between each stretch. This duration allows your skin adequate time to heal, which, in turn, minimizes the risk of complications.
TAPER METHOD
One of the most commonly used techniques for stretching piercings. In this method, a taper is used to widen the piercing.
- Make sure your hands, taper, and jewelry are clean.
- Apply a water-based lubricant to the taper and your jewelry to facilitate a smoother stretching process.
- Gently insert the narrower end of the taper into the piercing, and push it through until you reach the wider end. It should be a steady, slow motion to minimize any discomfort.
- Once the taper is fully through, align your new, larger jewelry with the wider end of the taper and follow it through the piercing.
- Clean the area again with a saline solution and avoid unnecessary movement or friction for the next few days.
Pros: It's a straightforward method that is relatively quick.
Cons: The abrupt change in size can be painful and potentially lead to tearing or other complications if not done carefully.
TAPING METHOD
A slower, but generally safer, approach to stretching. It's particularly useful for larger gauges where the risk of tearing or complications is higher.
- Make sure your hands and jewelry are clean.
- Take a non-adhesive, body-safe tape like PTFE or bondage tape and wrap it around your existing jewelry, increasing its diameter. The thickness should only be increased by a small increment, about 1-2 millimeters at most.
- Insert the newly wrapped jewelry back into your piercing.
- Once a week, add another layer of tape, allowing your piercing to gradually stretch over time.
- As always, keep the area clean and well-cared-for.
Pros: Safer and generally less painful, allows for more controlled stretching.
Cons: It's a slower process and requires consistent attention to hygiene, as tape can harbor bacteria if not changed regularly.
DEAD STRETCHING
The most organic approach to enlarging your piercings, letting your body dictate the pace without using specialized tools or techniques.
- Wait 2-4 months between each stretch. Your tissue will naturally loosen over time. Make sure your piercing feels loose and comfortable at its current size before trying to insert larger jewelry.
- Optimal times for stretching are after hot showers when your skin is at its most elastic. Apply a water-based lubricant or jojoba oil to your piercing and the new jewelry.
- Carefully insert the new size into your piercing. There should be minimal resistance. If you experience pain or bleeding it means your piercing isn't ready.
- Use a saline solution regularly to keep the area free from infection. Dead stretching is a slower process, which means prolonged exposure to potential bacteria.
Pros: It's the least invasive and often the least painful method. Since you're working with your body's natural pace, the risk of complications like tearing or blowouts is minimized.
Cons: It's a significantly longer process and requires a lot of patience. Moreover, it may not be suitable for all types of piercings or all sizes.
Types of jewelry for stretching
Material choice can significantly impact the success of your stretching journey. During the stretching phase, it's best to opt for non-porous materials like implant grade stainless steel or titanium, glass or low porosity stone, which minimize the risk of infection. These materials are hypoallergenic and easy to sterilize, making them an ideal choice for new stretches.
Organic materials like wood, bone, and horn offer a unique and natural aesthetic for stretched piercings. However, these materials are porous and can harbor bacteria, making them unsuitable for newly-stretched piercings. They are best reserved for fully healed stretches.
Do not use double-flared jewelry in new stretches. It has ends that are wider than the middle, which can make it difficult to insert into a new or healing stretch. The flare can sometimes get stuck in the fistula (the piercing tunnel). This could result in a painful experience and may require professional help to remove safely. When your stretched piercing is healed and settled it's more elastic, allowing for room to insert and remove such jewelry.
Stretching different types of piercings
While earlobe stretching is the most commonly practiced form, other piercings like the septum, nostrils, labrets, tongues and nipples can also be stretched. Each piercing type presents unique challenges, such as varying healing times and appropriate jewelry choices.
Healing times can vary widely based on the type of piercing, individual physiology, and proper aftercare. While earlobe stretching typically requires between 4 to 12 weeks of healing time, other piercings like septums require longer periods. Always consult with a professional piercer to determine appropriate healing times for your specific case.
Recognizing and addressing complications
Strict adherence to recommended stretching techniques and waiting periods can significantly mitigate the risks that can range from minor issues like irritation and mild infections to more severe problems like blowouts and tears. Overstretching or improperly sized jewelry can exacerbate these issues. If you notice any complications, it is essential to immediately consult a professional piercer for evaluation and treatment, which may include downsizing the jewelry or even removing it to allow the piercing to heal. For severe complications, professional medical treatment may be necessary.
Aftercare and maintenance of stretched piercings
A rigorous aftercare routine is essential for maintaining healthy stretched piercings. For new stretches, daily cleaning with a saline solution is key. Once they've healed, you can switch to cleaning and massaging with jojoba oil several times a week to minimize the smell we all associate with stretched piercings. Furthermore, taking out your jewelry when you sleep after it has settled, can provide some relief, especially if you're wearing larger or heavier pieces.
Stretching a piercing is a rewarding yet meticulous journey that requires planning, careful execution, and vigilant aftercare. With the correct approach and guidance from experienced professionals, you can enjoy the aesthetic and personal fulfillment that comes from successfully stretched piercings. Thank you for trusting me to guide you through this intricate process. May your stretching journey be as smooth as possible.