Communication with Your Piercer: Before, During, and After

Body piercing isn't just about selecting a spot and pushing a needle through. It’s a relationship between you and your piercer, one that involves trust, clarity, and mutual respect. This is why effective communication with your piercer is essential. Today I'm going to tell you what I, as a piercer, think you should and shouldn't do before, during, and after your piercing.

The Importance of Research

Before stepping into a piercing studio, arm yourself with knowledge. If you're unsure about the piercing you desire, reach out to your piercer and ask questions. Some piercings may look appealing but should never be attempted - a topic that warrants a separate blog post.
If you have any health concerns or upcoming plans that might impact the healing process, discuss them before scheduling an appointment. Sometimes, a piercer can advise you right away if a piercing can’t be performed. This proactive approach not only saves your time but also the piercer’s. A reputable piercer values a client who seeks information and understands their desired piercing. This not only enriches your interaction with the piercer but also provides peace of mind. However, be cautious about relying solely on online videos of piercings. Many of these videos prioritize views over best practices and may depict painful or dramatic experiences, leading to misconceptions and heightened fear. Fear can lower your blood pressure, increasing the risk of fainting during the procedure. Additionally, reading random horror stories on platforms like Reddit or Discord is not recommended. It's impossible to verify if the writer consulted a reputable piercer, followed proper aftercare, or even underwent the piercing at all. Instead, initiate communication with your piercer well before your appointment to ensure a safe and informed piercing experience.
By trusting your piercer and following their guidance, you can approach the process with confidence, knowing you're in good hands.

Consultation Etiquette

After choosing a reputable studio, reaching out if you have any questions, and booking your appointment, a face-to-face consultation is the next crucial step. It's important to note that different studios have varying approaches to consultations - some schedule them separately from the actual piercing appointment, while others (including my practice) prefer to conduct consultations just before the piercing session.
During the consultation, your piercer will carefully assess your anatomy to determine if the desired piercing can be performed safely and successfully. This is also the ideal time to ask any additional questions you may have about the procedure and jewelry options. We are here to provide you with all the information you need to make an informed decision.
Importantly, the consultation offers you the flexibility to make any final decisions. If, after the discussion and examination, you have second thoughts about the piercing, it's perfectly acceptable to change your mind. However, it's advisable to be as certain as possible about your choice beforehand to ensure that both your time and the piercer's time are used efficiently.
A successful consultation is also an opportunity to establish a rapport with your piercer. So, feel free to express any concerns or preferences during this stage, as it sets the foundation for a positive and safe journey toward your desired piercing.

Double-Checking and Confirmations

Once you're in the chair, it's go time. Your piercer will mark the intended spot, and it's vital that you speak up if you're unhappy with the placement. Remember, this is a permanent (or semi-permanent) change to your body—now is not the time for shyness. I myself am a bit of a perfectionist and have marked and remarked piercings for 30 minutes or more, so you wanting it to be where you prefer it (as long as it does not impact healing or the viability of the piercing) is completely okay.

During the Procedure

Piercing is an intimate and potentially nerve-wracking experience. Clear communication here is crucial for both you and the piercer. Do let the piercer know if you're uncomfortable or need a moment. Try not to be overly dramatic by screaming, jumping, or interrupting the piercer every 10 seconds. It's better to take a few minutes, step outside to catch your breath if necessary, calm down, and then return. This approach will be far better than spending those 5 minutes in a state of agitation while in the chair. Please refrain from touching anything on the piercing table, as it's kept sterile and should remain that way. Most importantly, do not touch your piercer! This can be VERY dangerous. I've had clients grab my hands while I'm in the process of pushing a needle through. Although it doesn't make me angry at the client, it can certainly impact my job and the outcome of the piercing. Your safety and the success of the procedure are our top priorities and should be yours as well.

 
Post-Piercing Briefing and Aftercare

In the days or weeks following the piercing, you may have questions or concerns. Your piercer remains your most reliable resource. Reach out to them for any issues during the healing process—avoid searching for information on less trustworthy sources online.

In the world of body piercing, effective communication between a skilled piercer and an informed client is pivotal for success. As we wrap up, I will present two lists highlighting the vital attributes that define these roles. It is my hope that these lists will assist both piercers and those getting pierced in fostering a foundation of trust, ultimately contributing to the emotional well-being and satisfaction of every piercing experience.

A Good Piercer Will:

1. Maintain Professionalism and Safety: Exemplify professionalism in all aspects of their work, from interactions with clients to the cleanliness of their studio.
2. Demonstrate Expertise: Showcase in-depth knowledge of piercing techniques, anatomy, and jewelry options while staying updated on industry advancements.
3. Provide Consultations and Clear Communication: Offer thorough consultations to discuss piercing options, risks, and effectively communicate the entire process, including aftercare.
4. Maintain Openness and Respect Consent: Be receptive to client questions and concerns, ensuring informed consent without pressure.
5. Deliver Ethical Practices and Patience: Adhere to ethical standards, respect autonomy, and exhibit patience, especially with nervous clients.
6. Manage Complications and Show Respect: Handle complications professionally, providing guidance and solutions when issues arise during the healing process.
7. Offer Aftercare Education and Follow-Up: Provide detailed aftercare instructions and offer follow-up consultations to monitor healing and address any concerns.
   

A Good Client Will:

1. Be Respectful: Treat the piercer and studio staff with politeness and respect, acknowledging their expertise and professionalism.
2. Be Inquisitive: Ask questions and seek clarification to fully understand the piercing process, risks, and aftercare requirements.
3. Be Punctual: Arrive on time for appointments to ensure a smooth and efficient experience for both themselves and the piercer.
4. Follow Aftercare Instructions: Adhere to the provided aftercare guidelines diligently, understanding that proper care is crucial for the healing process.
5. Maintain Open Communication: Keep the lines of communication with the piercer open, especially if any concerns or complications arise during the healing period.
6. Trust the Piercer's Expertise: Trust in the piercer's knowledge and experience when making decisions about piercing placement, jewelry, and aftercare.
7. Provide Feedback: Offer constructive feedback when necessary to help the piercer improve their services and maintain a high standard of care.
8. Refer Others: If satisfied with the service, recommend the piercer and studio to friends and family who are considering getting pierced.